ADMIRED
“Here come my dear girls,” cried Mrs. Thorpe, pointing at three smart-looking females who, arm in arm, were then moving towards her. “My dear Mrs. Allen, I long to introduce them; they will be so delighted to see you: the tallest is Isabella, my eldest; is not she a fine young woman? The others are very much admired too, but I believe Isabella is the handsomest.” Mrs. Thorpe, Northanger Abbey, Chapter 4
By Mrs. Thorpe’s boastful remarks, Jane Austen illustrates an important aspect of Regency society; – – the promotion of eligible daughters. If one looks at the energy that some of the Austen matrons like Mrs. Bennet from Pride & Prejudice, Mrs. Jennings from Sense & Sensibility, or Mrs. Allen from Northanger Abbey put into the furtherance of their ‘charge’s’ social position, one feels the fearful sense of urgency to find an appropriate match for them.
Once a young lady was formally introduced into society, she basically had three social seasons to attract and secure a husband before she was pushed aside by the next wave of new faces. The pressure to be admired and desired by eligible bachelors was intense. If a suitable husband was not engaged, she could be dismissed by society; – – an embarrassment and financial burden to her family.
Today, women feel the pressure of their ticking biological clocks. In the Regency era, it was the press of younger women eager to take their place at the ball.
Learn why author and Austen scholar Deirdre le Faye believes that modern readers need a thorough explanation of Austen’s milieu-Georgian and Regency Britain-in order to fully understand and enjoy her fiction, in her texturally enlightening Jane Austen: The Real World of the Novels available at barnesandnoble.com
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Thank you Lisa for your kind comment and for visiting today. I hope you continue to come back daily to see the new posts and add to the conversation. Best wishes, Laurel Ann
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Yes, lovely website. And so informative. Great job, Laurel Ann.
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Thanks for visiting my blog the other day. I like this post of yours because I was just thinking about how the word “admire” or “admiration” is rarely used nowadays, though it’s all over 19th-century novels! I wonder why that is?
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Hello Marissa, thank you for stopping by. You are right about the modern use of the word admire. It does appear in 19th-century novels quite frequently, and I think that character was nurtured and valued more then! People really worked on their deportment, which is a lost art today! I really like your blog http://www.marissabidilla.blogspot.com and will be returning. Best wishes, Laurel Ann
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