By: Mr. Reycroft

Mr. Reycroft — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 17:44:17 +0000

Indeed this is one of the most pivotal scenes in the fist third of the novel precisely because the deficiencies of the Bennets are made so abundantly clear for all to see. Unfortunately I find it among the more tortuous to read and watch particularly because of the disapprobation Mrs Bennet’s behaviour brings upon both Jane and Lizzie. While Kitty and Lydia’s lack of propriety, indiscriminate flirtations, and boisterous natures do the family no credit, it is Mrs. Bennet who draws my ire most severely for she is the originator of their intemperate manner. Without a governess the Miss Bennets had only their own senses and the example of their mother for guidance as to how a lady should comport herself. If there is a failing with Kitty it is that she aspires to be Lydia, and if their is a failing with Lydia it is that she has never been taught the values of self control and modesty. These failings I lay at Mrs Bennet’s feet.

Mrs Bennet’s low character is further in evidence at dinner. I can neither read nor watch the scene where Mrs Bennet goes on at length about Jane and Mr Bingley but I wish to silence her on their behalf. That she could be so coarse and unconscious of it, and worse to be so dismissive of Lizzie when the latter attempted to caution her, speaks to a certain selfishness of mind that is also the stock and trade of the youngest Miss Bennet. In reflection, though it may not have contributed to sisterly affection the Miss Bennets would have been far better served if the youngest of them had not been out in society before they were ready. In Lydia’s case I’m sure that the only solution I should find comfortable would be her conversion to Catholicism and thence to a nunnery.

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By: Mr. Reycroft